Family
Re-engagement Counseling
Redesigning relationships when connection has been lost
Created and led by Tracy Ross, LCSW or Judith Aronowitz, LCSW, Family Re-engagement Counseling is a short-term, structured process for adult family members—parents and adult children, or siblings—who are estranged, partially estranged, or fear they may be on the verge of losing contact.
Tracy Ross, LCSW
While some conflict may still be present, this work is about finding a way forward—not getting stuck in the past or caught in blame.
This is a space to reflect on what led to the disconnection, to be heard, and to explore whether—and how—the relationship can be reimagined in a way that feels safe, respectful, and emotionally sustainable.
Together, we work toward finding boundaries that work for everyone, supporting a connection that honors each person’s needs and reflects the complexity of your relationship.
Judith Aronowitz, LCSW
Grounded in family systems theory, attachment theory, and trauma-informed care, Family Re-engagement Counseling helps families:
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Re-establish safe and respectful communication
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Clarify individual needs, expectations, and boundaries
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Understand emotional dynamics that have shaped the relationship
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Explore the possibility of rebuilding meaningful contact
This is not high-conflict family therapy or crisis mediation. It’s a calm, intentional process designed to help family members pause, reflect, and consider what kind of connection might be possible now—with clarity, compassion, and care.
Redesigning Relationships means creating space for something new to emerge—even when the past feels heavy or uncertain.
This service includes a six-session arc, typically held weekly or biweekly
Each phase offers structure, support, and guided conversation to help family members move forward with greater clarity and compassion.
1. Setting the Foundation
(individual sessions & genogram)
Establish safety, build understanding of each family member’s goals, and explore intergenerational patterns.
2. Sharing Perspectives
Create space for each person to share how they’ve experienced the relationship, with support to manage emotional intensity and remain grounded.
3. Exploring What Happened
Surface key events, ruptures, or shifts in the relationship with attention to impact rather than blame.
4. Clarifying Needs and Boundaries
Name what each person needs now to feel safe and respected, and identify boundary-setting as a relational tool.
5. Reimagining the Relationship
Explore what kind of connection (if any) feels possible and sustainable—including frequency, format, and conditions for ongoing contact.
6. Consolidation and Next Steps
Review progress, clarify agreements, and discuss how to carry the work forward.
Is it time to reconnect - gently, thoughtfully, and with support?
If you’re navigating distance in your family and wondering what’s possible, we would love to help you explore it.
You don’t have to figure it out alone.
Let’s start with a brief conversation.
A free 15-minute consultation can help you get a sense of the process and whether it feels right for you.
